On April 8, 2025, I sat down with Master Gunnery Sergeant Juan Jose Valdez for an interview at Summerfield, where he shares a room with Shirley. I’ve been visiting them twice a week for over a year now, usually spending about an hour and a half each time. Over that time, Juan has shared many stories with me—some funny, some sad, and some really powerful. But this time was different. I was there to record his story and ask questions more formally.

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Even though I already knew a lot about Juan’s life, this interview helped me understand things even more deeply. He told me again about his time in Vietnam, especially about the final days of the war. He was part of the Marine Security team at the U.S. Embassy in Saigon, and he helped protect the building while thousands of people tried to escape. He talked about how hard it was to turn people away, especially when they were pleading for their children to be taken to safety. He didn’t say it to sound heroic—he just said it the way it was, with honesty and emotion.

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The part of the interview that stayed with me most was when Juan described being nearly left behind during the evacuation. He stumbled as the last helicopter was leaving, and other Marines had to pull him in at the last second. That moment really shows how chaotic and frightening it was. When he talked about it, I could tell he still thinks about it often.

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We also talked about the recent U.S. withdrawal from Afghanistan. Juan said it reminded him a lot of Saigon. He asked, "We spent so much money, so many weapons, and so many Marine and Army deaths. And for what, for what?" That question has stuck with me. It made me think more seriously about what war really means—not just for countries, but for the people who serve.

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What I’ve learned from knowing Juan is that history isn’t just something we read in books—it’s made up of real people with real experiences. Hearing his stories in person has helped me understand the cost of war, the meaning of sacrifice, and the importance of listening to those who were there. This interview was more than just an assignment. It was a chance to honor someone who has taught me a lot—not just about war, but about life, strength, and humility.

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I’m grateful that Juan trusts me enough to share these stories. I’ll carry them with me for a long time.